Showing posts with label MLK Day. Show all posts
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Tuesday, June 18, 2024

Blah Juneteenth Day

Everyone loves celebrating a federal holiday, don't they?

People love to gather in backyards and kitchen tables enjoying family and friends. Favorite nostalgic music from childhood, teenage years, and their wild twenties will be blasting in the background. Food is shared and cold beverages of choice are being drunk. The bar-b-que is being manned by the one known to throw down on the grill. Steaks, chicken, burgers, ribs, and hotdogs are filling the entire area with the promising smell of something delicious. In a corner here or there is a group of people loudly playing a card game of Spades or Dominoes, with people vying to be the champ. 

The first outside federal holiday, Memorial Day, celebrated in May, with the cleaning off and firing up the grill has passed. The grocery stores were filled with people buying the choicest of meats to be put on the grill. The stores (Dollar tree) were filled with people buying all of the paper and foam plates along with plastic silverware. The grocery store shelves were being emptied. Mustard, ketchup, pickles, and mayonnaise filled the grocery carts. The choice meats to put on the grill were constantly being restocked. The lines in the stores were long, but people remained in good spirits in line knowing it was for the cause of celebrating.

People really prepare for the biggest outdoor celebration, the 4th of July. People wear their red, white, and blue patriotic clothing. American flags fly high and are waved from the hands of every color of Americans. Backyards are filled with family and friends. On this day, people may begin celebrating in the daytime and continue on into the night. Because as soon as it is dark enough, the fireworks begin. The 4th of July is only second to Christmas in how elaborate the celebration can be.

Even Easter is celebrated with fanfare and anticipation for months. People are busy searching to find the perfect Easter dress or Easter suit to wear for the day. Children join in on the fun of this day too. They know the Easter bunny is going to hide Easter eggs filled with candy or money, nowadays, for them to find. Back in the day when I was a child, the eggs were over boiled eggs with a dark green ring around the outside of the yolk. People head out to church in their finery and would show up to gatherings still dressed to the nines. Women who normally did not wear hats would have a fine hat perched on top of their head. The fanfare of Easter has even been captured in a song. Yes, this holiday has its own song along with Christmas and the 4th of July. The song "Easter Parade" by Irving Berlin includes the lyrics, "Oh, I could write a sonnet about your Easter bonnet and of the girl I'm taking to the Easter Parade." The song was published in 1933 and is about the New York City's upper class who would attend Easter services on Fifth Avenue and show off their new spring outfits. The song also references the tradition of wearing new clothes at Easter, which symbolizes the renewal of the year and spiritual redemption.

I was today years old when I found out Juneteenth is a federal holiday. The day was recognized as a federal holiday in 2021, when President Joe Biden signed the Juneteenth National Independence Day Act into law. Juneteenth became the first federal holiday since Martin Luther King Jr. Day was adopted in 1983. Three years after it was made a federal holiday, Juneteenth 2024 marks a day of celebration and education. The federal holiday known as "Second Independence Day," marks the day the last African American slaves were notified they had been freed from their masters. My question is, "Where is the big celebrations, cookouts, parades, fireworks and festive songs for these two holidays and do people other than those who work in banks and post offices even take off for the day?"

Federal holidays are paid days off for federal government workers. There are 11 federal holidays as legislated in 5 U.S. Code 6103.

  • New Year’s Day: January 1
  • Martin Luther King, Jr. Day: Third Monday of January
  • President’s Day (George Washington’s Birthday): Third Monday of February
  • Memorial Day: Last Monday in May
  • Juneteenth: June 19
  • Independence Day: July 4
  • Labor Day: First Monday in September
  • Indigenous Peoples’ Day (also observed as Columbus Day): Second Monday in October
  • Veterans Day: November 11
  • Thanksgiving Day: Fourth Thursday in November
  • Christmas Day: December 25
THERE YOU HAVE IT! Juneteenth is a federal day allowing for the celebration of the nation for the second Independence Day of American citizens. So, where are the celebrations by the nation? 

I often wondered where the jubilation is on Martin Luther King Jr. Day. It is a somber, almost a sad kind of day. Martin Luther King Jr. Day is usually celebrated with marches and parades and with speeches by civil rights leaders and politicians. Individuals and organization also undertake volunteer efforts in support of what is often called MLK Day of Service. WHY? Where is the music, food, selected clothes for the day, large scale parades with fun for the kids, the smell of bar-b-que and laughter? People are not using their day off from WORK to go do some WORK. It should be a day of celebration and yes, you can have fun and at the same time celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. King. Come on
We celebrate the 4th of July knowing thousands of people died fighting for the freedom of the county. We don't have a long face or somber attitude on that holiday. Why does Martin Luther King Day seem so morbid? I watch the late-night news and see people dressed in clothes they don't care about getting dirty, picking up trash in parks. Nothing about the day seems like a celebration. It's almost like it is wrong to be joyous on that day. The Black community should go all out from happiness celebrating what Dr. King secured for Black Americans. Children should see us recognizing with joy and anticipation for the first holiday recognizing the Black citizens of America. Our gloomy attitude on the day, passes down gloom to our children. Because it's such a lack-luster holiday, people prefer to go to work. We need to do better when it comes to this holiday.
With politicians fighting to have selected history taught in schools, little known holidays like Juneteenth need to become a bigger PUBLIC celebration. What do people do on Juneteenth? Many states and cities plan festivities to mark Juneteenth, which is often celebrated with parades, street parties, and cookouts. The day as a historic one for American history, civil rights activists say, and memorializing it reaffirms the country's quest for equality.

Easter is a day Christians celebrate remembering the death of Jesus and his resurrection. Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus in a lowly manger. Each of these holidays could be seen as a somber occasion and not a time to be joyous. But they are holidays we look forward to celebrating and celebrating with others. Children are told fantastic stories on each of these days about a fat man bringing them gifts while they sleep and a large bunny hoping around to give them all of the candy, they can possibly eat without getting into trouble. Heck. Halloween is more festive than MLK Day and Juneteenth. You would think it was a federal holiday with the nation joining in on the cheerful day of dead people roaming the earth. I look forward to seeing the trick-or-treaters and their costumes on the nightly news. There is FUN to be had by all ages of people. It's a whimsical day allowing for creativity to flourish in the costumes people had planned for months.
True, Martin Luther King Day and Juneteenth are newer celebrated national holidays and have the potential to change as the years go by. But what is wrong with having good, safe, fun? 

I know people say the entire country don't give a flip about the two holidays and they are BLACK holidays. White people will never celebrate them with large scale parades and fun. I am not going to get into a debate about this. What I will say, people like to have a reason to celebrate, get together for a good time. Nothing about the two holidays, in my opinion say, "Come on over. We have the grill fired up and so and so is coming over too. Bring the kids. They will enjoy what we have planned for them. Bring your own fireworks so we can have a lot of them to enjoy."

The few events in my area are small and boring. YES! I said it. They are BORING! I know I am an adult and should not need to shake my booty every chance I get. I should be able to sit for an hour, listening to a prestigious person recount the struggle of African Americans. I prefer to have a celebration of the Black people. Having a grand old time demonstrating their happiness in where they started from in the country until now. They should save their money through the year ensuring they will have the biggest and best bar-b-que of the year on these holidays. They should wear elaborate clothes, they don't even have to give or be a nod to Africa, but what a WOW time to see people dressed in ancestral clothing in their own stylish way. There should be a song made about the clothes worn on Juneteenth because Black people went from wearing dirty rags to top designers if they so choose. STRUT your stuff for this day outdoing each other. 

Black people know how to party and party they should. When a holiday is looked forward to with anticipation, it stays on the mind. Planning and preparing for the holiday becomes a family affair. Children should be allowed to do something fun which is normally restricted the rest of the year. Let them wake up looking forward to celebrating the holiday and making lasting memories.

You may ask what do I do on these holidays. The answer is nothing. I understand the importance of doing service for others, but I'm just not that into to it and I know that is one of the main reasons why it is done on MLK Day. He served the people. But I don't get excited about the day. I would like for there to be elaborate celebrations for these holidays to rival the Pride Parades and Mardi Gras. 
Juneteenth, a federal holiday is approaching, and many people do not even know about it let alone it is a federal holiday. The store won't be crowded with people shopping for food and decorations to delight invited guest. The local news will make mention of a few events here and there happening in the community, but large-scale celebrations have not caught on yet. I do try to put a little outdoor decoration up I find in the Dollar Tree which is recently added during the month of June. But there is not a contagious air of celebration as the holiday approaches. The reader may be thinking, "Well, why don't you do a celebration for the holiday." It just doesn't feel holidayee to me. 
I'm hoping our baby holidays of MLK Day and Juneteenth become two of Americas most looked forward to holidays. But right now, they are just a little blip on the holiday calendar.

Saturday, January 13, 2024

I Have A Dream

 

    What is a dream? Some people may have an idea leading to their success come to them in a dream while sleeping. John Lennon wrote a best-selling song -- one of his most iconic solo works -- based on a dream he had. The chorus of "#9 Dream" repeats a nonsensical phrase he heard in the dream, "Ah! böwakawa poussé, poussé," and the lyrics refer to the feeling of a dream being real: "So long ago/ Was it in a dream, was it just a dream?/Seemed so very real, it seemed so real to me." Beatles legend has it that Paul McCartney composed the melody for "Yesterday" -- the most-covered song in music history -- in a dream one night in 1964. 

          Director Christopher Nolan took the inspiration for his 2010 psychological thriller Inception from his own lucid dreams. The psychological thriller follows a dream thief (played by Leonardo DiCaprio), a corporate spy, who steals dreams from the minds of CEOs and business tycoons. 

    Stephen King was hit by a minivan in 1999, while he was walking down a country road in Maine. While recovering from the collapsed lung and a shattered leg, the prolific horror writer began having vivid dreams. Those dreams formed the basis of the 2001 novel turned film Dreamcatcher. But it wasn't the only work of King's to be inspired by a dream. King has said, that his dreams help him to portray events symbolically in his writing.

    A field of cows inspired Albert Einstein’s theory of relativity, which, according to a calm.com survey, is one of the most important ideas that ever came out of sleep. In his dream, Einstein was telling a farmer about cows being surrounded by an electric fence, but the farmer saw something different. Einstein awakened with the realization that the same event could vary from different perspectives, and the theory of relativity began to take shape.

    Elias Howe was exhausted from his attempts to develop a machine that could stitch together fabric. Asleep, he dreampt that cannabils were preparing to cook him as they danced about waving spears—and the spears had a hole at the sharp tip. Eureka! That’s when Howe got the idea to pass the thread through the point of the needle instead of the end, explains author David Jones in his book The Aha! Moment: A Scientist’s Take on Creativity

    “I saw the pale student of unhallowed arts kneeling beside the thing he had put together. I saw the hideous phantasm of a man stretched out, and then, on the working of some powerful engine, show signs of life, and stir with an uneasy, half vital motion. Frightful must it be for supremely frightful would be the effect of any human endeavor to mock the stupendous mechanism of the Creator of the world.” This is how author Mary Shelley described the lucid dream that led to her classic novel, Frankenstein. 

    Unlike many of the other world-changing ideas mentioned here, the story of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde didn’t originate after a night of sweet slumber; the tale of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde came to Robert Louis Stevenson during a drug-induced nightmare. His dream-induced screams disturbed his wife, Fanny, who angrily woke him up. Startled, he said to her, “Why did you wake me? I was dreaming a fine bogey tale.” The nightmare took a terrible turn when Fanny thought the first draft of the story was nonsense—and she burned it.  Stevenson feverishly rewrote the 30,000-word story over a three-day period. Sure enough, it ended up selling so well that the book lifted the Stevensons out of debt.

    According to psychoanalyst Carl Jung, our dreams can function on many different levels, from telling us which parts of our psyche are out of balance to anticipating our future needs. He also believed that most dreams operated on the level of stories, myths, and archetypes -- making them a wonderful source of ideas and inspiration. All human beings are also dream beings. Jack Kerouac, who composed a book entirely of his own dreams, once said. "Dreaming ties all mankind together."

    Dreaming is a natural brain function, and all human beings do it. But some people never remember their dreams, according to experts. Your dreams have meanings as well. Psychologists say that both men and women become sexually aroused while dreaming (even if the dream has no sexual content). Average amount of time spent dreaming per night: 1 1⁄2 to 2 hours. Some people dream during the day as well.

     There is another type of dreaming and dream. People have come to believe in the "Ameican Dream?" Over time, the phrase “American dream” has come to be associated with upward mobility and enough economic success to lead a comfortable life. Historically, however, the phrase represented the idealism of the great American experiment. If you ask most people around the world what they mean by the “American dream,” nearly all will respond with some version of upward social mobility, the American success story, or the self-made man (rarely the self-made woman).

     No less an authority than the Oxford English Dictionary defines the American dream as “the ideal that every citizen of the United States should have an equal opportunity to achieve success and prosperity through hard work, determination, and initiative.”

    The idea that every person, no matter their present circumstance, could become rich if they worked hard in America, was not the norm. For most rich people during that time period, with money and status, wealth had been passed down from generation to generation. You had to be born into wealth. And if a person who had not been born into wealth and status within the country became wealthy, their newly acquired wealth was looked down upon for being “new money.” The American dream opened the possibility for anyone to become rich and gain status in the country.

    Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. had this type of dream for America. His speech about a dream and vision he had for America became famous. The I Have a Dream speech, is a public speech that was delivered by the American civil rights activist and Baptist minister Martin Luther King Jr. during the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom on August 28, 1963. In the speech, King called for civil and economic rights and an end to racism in the United States.

    Martin Luther King Jr.'s “Dream” speech was a call for equality. It identified the faults of America and what measures were needed to make it a better place. A central theme throughout the speech was the importance of everyone being treated equally. His dream was a vision he believed was accomplishable if the effort and hard was put towards the goal.

    Successful people may have other things going for them as well. But they certainly have a vision. A clear dream, along with the courage to act and follow through, dramatically increases your chances of success. It has been said that if you aim for nothing, you will hit it every time! I couldn’t agree more. The Good Book says that without a vision, people perish. They run amuck. They live without restraint, giving their time and attention to whatever screams the loudest instead of what will get them ahead in life (Proverbs 29:18).

    Altruism or having altruistic dreams is the selfless act of helping others without expecting anything in return. It is often considered one of the defining characteristics of what it means to be human. The list of people in history who had dreams of helping others and the world at large is a short list. Their journey of following their dreams gives real meaning to they can’t go where you are going.

    Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. dreamed of an America which embraced all of its people regardless of color and economic status and treated each fairly. Even though there were many people supporting his dream, there were many in opposition to his dream.

    Some of the major political leaders of the day spoke out in opposition to Martin Luther King Jr's dream and the demands of civil rights activists. Many prominent Democrats made the argument that African Americans should be happy with what they had, rather than asking for more.

    The majority of White Americans living in the South opposed King, but that reaction was not confined to the South. By 1966, a nationwide Gallup poll found only 33% of Americans had positive feelings about Dr. King. Seventy-five percent of Americans disapproved of the civil rights leader as he spoke out against the Vietnam War and economic disparity.

    White racial resentment was still a critical factor at that point. But Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s unfavorable numbers were at least 25 points higher in 1968 than in 1963, and his faltering appeal over the final years of his life was also a consequence of appearing to fall behind his times in some respects even as he was leaping well ahead of them in others.

    Martin Luther King Jr., born January 15, 1929, was an American Baptist minister, activist, and political philosopher who was one of the most prominent leaders in the civil rights movement from 1955 until his assassination in 1968. A Black church leader and a son of early civil rights activist and minister Martin Luther King Sr., King advanced civil rights for people of color in the United States through nonviolent resistance and civil disobedience against Jim Crow laws and other forms of discrimination in the United States.

    King participated in and led marches for the right to votedesegregationlabor rights, and other civil rights. He oversaw the 1955 Montgomery bus boycott and later became the first president of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC). As president of the SCLC, he led the unsuccessful Albany Movement in Albany, Georgia, and helped organize some of the nonviolent 1963 protests in Birmingham, Alabama. King was one of the leaders of the 1963 March on Washington, where he delivered his I Have a Dream speech on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, in Washington D.C. The civil rights movement achieved pivotal legislative gains in the Civil Rights Act of 1964Voting Rights Act of 1965, and the Fair Housing Act of 1968.

    Dr. King met and lost friends and supporters while working to achieve his dream. In 1968, King was planning a national occupation of Washington, D.C., to be called the Poor People's Campaign, when he was assassinated on April 4 in Memphis, Tennessee. His death was followed by national mourning, as well as anger leading to riots in many U.S. cities. King was posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 1977 and the Congressional Gold Medal in 2003. Martin Luther King Jr. Day was established as a holiday in cities and states throughout the United States beginning in 1971; the federal holiday was first observed in 1986. Hundreds of streets in the U.S. have been renamed in his honor, and King County in Washington was rededicated for him. The Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial on the National Mall in Washington, D.C., was dedicated in 2011.

    Dr. King understood the dangers of him fighting for social change and equality. He knew many people wouldn’t embrace his vision for a different America. He also knew there would be people who were not going to be able to be a part of his dream and that he may not live to see his own dream come about. The knowledge of where his dreams may take him did not stop him from dreaming and working towards that dream.

    There are people who dream and have the satisfaction of living to see their dream come true. There are some people who know they will not live to see the realization of their dreams. There are people who cannot go where you are going. Sometimes to your death because of your dream. They can’t go with you where you are going.

    Reach for as many personal dreams you can acheive. Hopefully, while acheiving personal dreams, you will reach for altruistic dreams which benifits humanity. HAVE A DREAM.

***THIS IS AN EXCERPT FROM A WORK IN PTOGRESS: "    They Can't Go With You Where You Are Going"

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