Dreadlocks refer to interlocked coils of hair which may form naturally or through
manipulation. It is a symbol of a religious movement, notably the Rastafari movement,
although an increasing number of people from different religions and
cultures wear dreadlocks nowadays. Is it just another hairstyle?
Today, unfortunately, this unique hairstyle - with a long tradition of
spirituality, is closely associated with defiance, guns, crime,
irresponsibility, insubordination, untidiness, you name it. Even in the
U.S, where there's a lot of talk about freedom and the dream of not
judging people from appearances, dreadlocked folks have constantly come
under attack! I was appalled when a judge in a New Orleans court ordered
a teenager wearing dreadlocks
to cut them. What happened to freedom? Do ideas about personal
appearance cloud your judgement? Why do you think dreadlocks is
constantly being associated with negative connotations? Is the
dreadlocks myth a reality?
I have been wearing dreadlocks since 2003 - one year after I was
admitted to study law in the University of Buea, Cameroon. Initially,
people were surprised to see a law student with dreadlocks, but after
sometime, it kind of became my "trademark". People described me as the
"guy with dreadlocks" and I managed to literally get myself some fans
and followers (I still have some today). Fortunately or unfortunately,
many people became aware of the fact that it's okay to wear dreadlocks,
provided you don't compromise your values and don't show up for a
high-profile job interview (at least for now).
At home, I encountered some initial resistance from my mom. I remember
she always told me that lawyers don't wear deadlocks. Her fear, which I
understood, was that I was going to "change" and compromise the values
tirelessly instilled in my siblings and I. However, she let me get away
with wearing dreadlocks when she realised it was really what I wanted.
It is worth mentioning that her worry was genuine, but I knew better,
and never indulged in the things commonly associated with dreadlocks; I
never smoked a cigarette ( not in my lifetime!), never dropped out of
school, never became a criminal and neither did I negate my christian
values or join the rastafari movement. As a matter of fact, I can look
you in the face and reaffirm the fact that I've never confirmed any of
the dreadlocks myths.
Do you know anyone whose behaviour or goals plummeted, when s/he started wearing dreadlocks? (I don't know any!)
Do you know anyone who has been profiled because s/he wears dreadlocks? (I know a few)
More importantly, have you ever regarded someone who wears dreadlocks as
a "loser"? These are tough questions that should be answered in an
effort to dispel the dreadlocks myth.
When I started wearing locks, I promised myself that I'd cut them after
my Masters degree. As the day draws near, I can't help, but look back
with nostalgia at the high and low moments of my 7-year dreadlocks
experience. There were moments when, because of my dreadlocks, I was
regarded as a local icon. Some friends and acquaintances called me "Icon for Town" - a slang we used at the university, to refer to a trailblazer or someone who stands out from the crowd.
Like I said, there were low moments too - when people MISTAKENLY thought
I was just another uneducated, low-life criminal with dreadlocks. I
always like the look on their faces when I "blow my cover", though.
Regardless, I've never regretted my decision to wear dreadlocks. I'm
happy to have represented the many responsible folks out there who wear
dreadlocks, and to have "busted" the dreadlocks myth.
From this day on, before you prejudge someone who wears dreadlocks, bear
in mind that you might be going in for another big surprise because
s/he might just be more educated, more successful, more cultured and
generally a more dedicated citizen of the world, than you're! Get to
know the dreadlocks carrier before you jump into hasty conclusions.
I'll leave you with the words of the legendary dreadlocked Bob Marley One Love
article written in 2010 ***pending permission from author http://www.zuzeeko.com/p/contact-zuzeeko.html
Discussing my books: "The Politics Of Prayer," "When Will Eve Be Forgiven?" "Diary of a Wannabe Gardener," "Manhood Interrupted An Answer For The Red Pill Man," and future books. INTERVIEWS (womanhood, women in ministry, women authors, dreadlock wearers, and anti-Red Pill Man). Also, current events impacting society. Contact me at: rizerfall@yahoo.com
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